5 Sex Toys To Spice Up Your Bedroom

 Sometimes, when you’re in a long-term relationship, it can be hard to keep things interesting in bed. So many things can get in the way, such as work, chores and even everyday routine. With all of these factors included, things can become bland and start fading over time, even though that doesn’t mean you’re not attracted to your partner. Luckily, there are so many ways in which you can spice things up and have fun in the bedroom. So, let’s look at some of the ways that can shake things up and enjoy yourselves. 

Vibrator

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Introducing toys in the bedroom can sometimes be intimidating and hard to decide on. But one of the easiest and most used toys is the vibrator. The diverse vibrator toy comes in various shapes, sizes and designs, perhaps making it more difficult to choose, but they are the to-go toy for many couples that decide to spice things up in the boudoir. 

First, let’s discuss the types. There are a few types, each meant for a different purpose. Some focus on clitoral stimulation, and these are perfect for women who enjoy external stimulation. And many women have said that this is the easiest way for them to achieve an orgasm. Furthermore, there’s the internal pleasure vibrator, which can sometimes even reach the G-spot, making sex more fun. Plus, they often have extra features that can tickle and tease other areas, like the clitoris and G-spot, at the same time.. You use your hand, or your partner can use their hand, to manipulate it around to hit the right spots while saving your arm and hands from stroking back and forth.

When it comes to choosing the right one for you, there are a few things you need to take into consideration. First of all is the material. Make sure that you’re getting a toy made from body-safe silicone so that you won’t get any unwanted reactions to the material. 

For beginners, starting with a lightweight and simple-to-use vibrator toy is prudent. Additionally, for those seeking to involve their partners, selecting a sex toy that encourages mutual enjoyment could enhance the shared experience. It's essential to find a vibrator that aligns with your desires, whether that's a gentle touch or rumbly vibrations, and fits comfortably within your personal preferences for an enthralling experience, for both you and your partner, so that you both can enjoy.

Dildo

Moving on to another toy that many people might think is the same as a vibrator, but they are not. Dildos are used for penetration, and they come in different sizes and shapes;s, it all depends on you and your wishes. They can also resemble a penis, or not even look like one; it’s all up to you. Some people love the idea of a life-like visual, but others aren't so fond of it. They are also made from different materials such as silicone, glass and even metal ones. They are all different, so when you decide on one, make sure that you know how to use them and clean them before and after using them.

Cock Rings 

Cock rings (also called "penis rings") are some of the oldest sex toys in the world. And they’re still popular today for a good reason. Cock rings don’t just add a little kinky fun to your time between the sheets. They enhance the physical sensation of sex for you and your partner. They have a few benefits such as keeping the penis hard for a longer period of time, helping the man last longer and increasing the sensations, and making the sex more enjoyable. 

Restrains

This might feel a little scary at first, but the good thing about this is that restraining can be adjusted to your comfort level, meaning that you can start with something light and, if you and your partner feel comfortable, move on to something more daring. It is under power play, wherein one of the partners assumes a higher level of dominance while making love, and the other becomes submissive. Although this assumes a hierarchy of power, it is appropriate to characterise bondage sex as open communication to negotiate acts and find mutual pleasure in physical and mental stimulation. 

Sex Swing 

Another way to add some excitement to the bedroom is by adding a sex swing. Not to bash on the regular positions like missionary, but when you add in a few new angles, you can take things to a new and exciting level. Sex swings come in many different designs, from door swings, which are usually the easiest kind of sex swing to use because they are easy to install, to sex slings, which are like hammocks and of course, the traditional swing with two primary straps and other bits and pieces like handles and even headrests if needed.

Sex certainly isn’t everything in a relationship. However, keeping sex exciting and enjoyable for both you and your partner means putting in the work, switching things up and not doing the same thing over and over again. There’s nothing wrong with having a routine sex life. However, it’s important to heat things now and then.